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Trauma Bonding in HLOMU: THE WIFE
👉🍿Watch the FULL video on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/zp9y0wEJmPA?si=dGJpm5bb-0DFVfmT Why We Stay: The Science of Trauma Bonding ⛓️💔 Why do we stay in relationships that are destroying us? It isn’t a lack of logic—it’s a psychological cage. In this video, we break down the "black hole" of Trauma Bonding and why the human brain often confuses high-intensity anxiety for deep intimacy. If you’ve ever felt like you were "addicted" to a person who hurts you, you aren't alone. You
Nokubonga Ngubane
3 days ago1 min read


Smartphones- the digital cuddle buddy in YOUNGINS
👉🍿Watch the FULL video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RIm6kzdqsTA?si=0XOCeqbHPOFrkG_v Why is the first thing you grab in a quiet moment your smartphone? It’s not just boredom. There is a profound psychological reason why we feel naked without our devices. In this video, we explore the concept of the Transitional Object—a term coined by psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott—and how our phones have become the modern-day version of a childhood security blanket. 🧠 The Psychology of Con
Nokubonga Ngubane
4 days ago1 min read


Grief in ISIBAYA
👉🍿Watch the FULL video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9C_3Ecf4Tvo?si=wUtrC8jbbL-d-rO7 Grief is not a solo journey—it’s a seismic shift in your entire relational universe. 🌍 When we lose a loved one, we don’t just lose a person; we lose a piece of our identity and the social systems that kept us stable. In this video, we dive deep into the psychology of grief, exploring why it feels like an "interpersonal earthquake" and how it shatters our sense of self. 🔍 In this video, w
Nokubonga Ngubane
4 days ago1 min read


Anniversary reactions in HOW TO RUIN CHRISTMAS
👉🍿Watch the FULL video on YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/8_fNCZYv2HA?si=dgmp1fk_LxcoxXYp Do you ever have those days where you feel sad, anxious, or "heavy" for no obvious reason? ⛈️ You check your phone, your bank account, and the news—everything is fine. But then you look at the calendar and realize: it's a specific date, a specific month, or even just a Tuesday! In this video, we explore the Anniversary Reaction—a psychological phenomenon where your unconscious mind "re-enac
Nokubonga Ngubane
4 days ago1 min read
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