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THE BLAME GAME: How Projection Fuels Workplace Bullying
Workplace bullying isn't just a linear case of a person in power picking on a subordinate. It’s a complex, unconscious dynamic that often...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Sep 162 min read


What Cinderella’s Stepsisters Can Teach Us About Envy and Shame
“Don’t be ridiculous, Andrea. Everybody wants this. Everybody wants to be us.” - Miranda Priestley, The Devil Wears Prada (2006)....
Nokubonga Ngubane
Aug 213 min read


Time and lateness in psychotherapy
"Lateness as a language: What you're really communicating in therapy without saying a word" by Amina Wellness Every minute counts in...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Jul 292 min read


From Overwhelmed to Understood: How therapists "Shrink" the Unbearable
Ever wonder why therapists are called Shrinks? The truth will blow your mind by Amina Wellness Have you ever wondered why therapists are...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Jul 221 min read


Introjection: Your brain's emotional wifi hotspot.
Are you carrying feelings that don't belong to you? The psychology of emotional inheritance by Amina Wellness Someone entered my office...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Jul 222 min read


Reflecting Manhood: How fathers' influence their son's identity.
The influence of fathers on their sons' development is profound, extending beyond simple guidance to shaping their capacity for emotional...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Jul 82 min read
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