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THE BLAME GAME: How Projection Fuels Workplace Bullying
Workplace bullying isn't just a linear case of a person in power picking on a subordinate. It’s a complex, unconscious dynamic that often...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Sep 162 min read


When Hurt People Hurt People: The Science Behind 'Identification with the Aggressor'.
Have you ever wondered why we sometimes adopt the very behaviours we've experienced from a difficult boss, a harsh critic, or a...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Aug 292 min read


What Cinderella’s Stepsisters Can Teach Us About Envy and Shame
“Don’t be ridiculous, Andrea. Everybody wants this. Everybody wants to be us.” - Miranda Priestley, The Devil Wears Prada (2006)....
Nokubonga Ngubane
Aug 213 min read


Beyond Pink and Blue: The enduring impact of fathers on daughters' psychosocial growth.
The presence and role of a father, or a significant father figure, profoundly shapes a daughter's psychosexual development and sense of...
Nokubonga Ngubane
Jul 103 min read
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